Being born Hawaiian is great, but, there are times in my life that I recall when that much was all there was - that the only reason why things happened in my life is because  "that is how it is in a Hawaiian family...and that is how it will be, no matter what you want, in OUR family" was the energy that loomed, always, when I was a child.

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Lots of strange and traumatic things happened throughout the course of my life, and most of it the opposite of what I was told. All that did was confuse me. The things that I know a whole LOT about are our  perception of ourselves, and the behavioral patterns that stay strong in families. The reason that I know this is because lots of times, what was being said to me did not match the actions being taken. This does lots of damage to a person. It can make them do things that make us wonder where they learned it from. In my case, the person who shared kids with me abused me. No one could figure out how I, specifically, ended up in such an awful situation. It took me, my children, and the help of my parents, to finally get out of it. Once that happened, more ugliness happened. When I hit rock bottom, I chose then and also to do like The Van Halen song "Unchained" states...I hit the ground runninʻ and did not look back. That was three years ago.

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Today I am not the same person I was then. I do not have all of the same people in my life, and neither the same things. I can now tell other people what happened to me without crying. It took a long time for me to get to that point.

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Healing came to me through me - not through a relationship, or some sort of herbal remedy, not through anything and anyone else but me.

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Sure - those things have aided my healing and helped me along my Path thus far, but, it is all on me, and I Am here to teach others how to heal themselves, too...Mahalo for Being here - not on my website, but, on this planet...your presence matters, as do you....Aloha - Rox